It is safe to say that you are a solitary lady who has kissed countless frogs however not yet handled the Prince? Or then again would you say you're simply holding onto something that was never intended to be? On the flip side, if you need to understand what makes a man tick and fall for a lady and is ready to walk her down the path, read on...
Here are 20 things men really desire in women:
Sometimes he's awkward. Other times, words fail him. But he likes to think that you don't doubt his love for you. He loves you. See him in all his gestures and even feel them in his silences.
Dare to surprise him and seize the sexual power of your
couple. He will be totally charmed.
3. Respect
Highly sensitive, he can't stand you putting him down even as a joke. He advocates respect for all and he demands it for himself. A man cannot stand that this right is violated. Under his swaggering air, he likes you to respect him for what he is… including his faults!
4. He Likes To Be Admired
To be petted? He likes that. To be told that it is good? He really appreciates it. To be looked at with admiring eyes? He adores.
A guy likes his girlfriend to be a little swooned over him, his
talents, his prowess (in bed or elsewhere!)
5. Your Simple Presence Counts… A Lot!
He's not addicted, but he loves it when you roam around him. Better yet, he likes (without admitting it, of course!) When you spend an evening glued to him, on the couch, watching a hockey game or spending the day with him on the golf course (even if you suck at golf!).
6. Men Like Natural Beauty
Well, it's hard to say when he's single, he would sound like a macho man. But men like their wives to be naturally beautiful. Not a skinny model in the streets of New York or a beauty wearing makeup all the time!
No, a resplendent girl who, above all, feels good about
herself. For him, horror is a girl stuck to her scales who refuses the
good sides of life.
7. He Needs Your Encouragement
He will never say it loudly (especially not in front of his friends!), but your man gets discouraged too.
Sometimes he wakes up at night to stare at the ceiling and turns
a problem all over the place. In these times of anxiety, what helps the
most is your encouragement.
He needs you to be behind him and his decisions. If you can’t
give him this, he’ll turn to the one who can.
8. He Wants to Feel Appreciated
Because he sometimes gets discouraged (see the previous point!), he does not take your love for granted, although he may sometimes lead you to believe it.
What he needs most are your "thanks", your sweet
little words, your knowing smiles, etc. He also likes you to show your
"happiness" to see him take care of your computer, your car or all
the things that you do not like to worry about.
9. Make You Laugh
When he manages to make you laugh spontaneously, for him, it's like winning the jackpot!
He is proud of himself and feels happy for the fact that he
makes you laugh. In fact, he also loves to laugh in your company. He
likes you to have humor, banter and an incredible sense of self-deprecation.
10. Men Love an Independent Woman
If you expect too much or have no self-interest, your man may find you a bit boring. He likes that his girlfriend has plans (he is proud of them!) And that she knows how to get by in life. Of course, he likes to protect her, but he never wants to cut off her wings. He prefers a woman who has "his little things" than another who waits for him, in "pause" mode, when he leaves. A third lung.
11. He Loves To See You Eat
Believe it or not, women look sexy to men when they’re eating, but women feel shy when they eat in front of men.
Make him see you eat without counting calories and milligrams of
sodium. What he likes is the act of eating and he wants to have fun doing
it. There is no question of always evaluating, measuring and comparing: he
does not like to worry.
Most of all, he wants you to let him eat whatever he likes
without commenting like a pseudo-nutritionist.
12. He Wants to See You Look Desirable
Men are constantly comparing you with other women. And they’re constantly seeking to attract attention. In fact, he likes to see that he still elicits a few honeyed looks from other women, especially when he’s with you.
He likes women to notice him and other men to feel jealous. That's
the part he'll never confess. Especially not to you! But know that it
is there, in him.
But he also wants to see in your eyes that you always want him
to. You know, the little flame...
13. Men are Also Sensitive
He wants to be able to cry without fear that you will then take it as weakness and advantage of this weakness to manipulate or mock him.
Demonstrating sensitivity is sometimes awkward for men, not so
much as to let you see the tears fall, but rather for fear of appearing weak.
14. The Peace
For him, weekends are used for rest. And resting does not mean organizing a dinner, going to the movies, cleaning the house and running the store.
To rest is to do nothing. Have peace and not be in
"planning" mode.
15. Discuss
For sure, your man is not afraid of discussions. In fact, it's often the subjects that don't hook him. But discuss with him the subjects he is passionate about and he will be boundless. But beware, he talks in his own way too.
For him, gossip is not his cup of tea and they do not embark on
analyzing past events. Going over and gossiping doesn't appeal to
him.
Do not hesitate to tell him about your day, but don't dwell too
much on the details that make him win… like the color of your colleague's
skirt.
16. Don’t Seek To Change Him
No, he doesn't want to change… unless he's the instigator of that change. Otherwise, if it's from you, it might not turn him around.
If you want him to change, either change yourself, or make your
suggestion look like it’s coming from him.
Feeling like you don't
“completely” like him is a big mistake.
17. Feel the Protector
When he protects you, he feels he is playing his role well and that he is in his place. No matter how much independence he wants you to have, he still wants to be the one to protect you.
For you, he is ready for anything. He wants to be able to
stand up for you, get into hot water for you, and get you out of trouble if the
opportunity arises.
18. Magic of Text Messages
Don’t underestimate the power of text messages. Naughty and explicit text messages can turn a man on.
Letting him know what you have in store for him in the evening, can completely corrupt his mind to the extent he can't think of anything else except you.
He might not dare to show it to you explicitly, but he really likes this
line of communication coming from you. He thinks you're special.
19. Guide Him
Men are delighted to know that you're comfortable, especially during sexual intercourse.
In bed, your man likes it when you tell him what you like. He likes you to guide him to take you to 7th heaven. Thus, he feels more efficient and his pride is rekindled.
A man will never leave a woman who makes him feel useful and special.
20. Be Sweet and Loving
Although he can be the alpha male and chest strut, a man still loves caresses, gentle attentions and tender gestures.
Your hand on his arm reassures him. The touch of his cheek with
your delicate fingers moves him. Be gentle with him, he loves it.